It seems to be a common assumption or we can say common misconception that all men are potentially 'put out' by their girlfriends owning a vibrator, and that a dildo replaces a woman's need for a man. This is certainly an incorrect assumption. Plenty of women feel more comfortable buying luxury vibrators and using them to learn more about what pleases them best but ultimately dildos or vibrators or any other high end sex toys help improve her sexual relationship with you. If your girlfriend does have a vibrator, incorporate it into your sexual play by you taking control of her toy.
Most vibrators will have a speed dial so make full use of the different settings when playing with her - start slowly with a low setting. Don't just insert the vibrator straight into her; use the toy to tease her. Place the vibrator on different sensitive spots on her body - enjoy finding out which sensations she likes best by moving the vibrator over different parts of her body. Tease her by moving the head of the vibrator around the clitoris without directly touching it, until she asks you for more. For a variation hold her vibrator in your hand while you stroke her clitoris for a special pleasurable feeling.
As your partner builds towards climax, play cat and mouse, by slowing the vibrator again or withdraw it completely teasing your girlfriend until she moans for more. Women can find it hard to orgasm just through penetration alone, keep the vibrator going as part of intercourse, by putting her on top and putting the vibrator at the base of your penis will send waves of pleasure for both of you. Alternatively you could tease her clit with high quality sex toys while you take her from behind.
If you are not confident using a vibrator to tease and pleasure your girlfriend, ask her to show you what she likes to do with her own toy, what better way is there than to watch and learn? Another option to drive her crazy is a wireless vibrator - giving you the control over her orgasm. Nothing can beat the excitement of a man controlling his partner's pleasure via remote control. Using a wireless remotes means the opportunities to enjoy this discreet toy are endless; get your girlfriend to wear it wherever she dares!
A vibrator can also provide amazing stimulation for men as the mens sex toys; use them gently on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help achieve a great high for men and women, talk to your partner about what they enjoy and have fun searching for play things and sex toys online together.
